The Youniverse

The more you get in touch with your ability to choose and your constant use of that ability, the more responsibility you take in your life experience and the happier you become with your choices.

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Your identity is the product of your choices. As you change your choices you change your identity. An example: one day, you may choose to stop eating meat, which would change your identity from a “carnivore” or “omnivore” to a “vegetarian”. 

The difference created between any of us, or between ourselves from moment to moment, is only created as a result of the difference between our choices. 

Your true identity, however, is not the choice you are making right now. Actually, it is not any one single choice. It is all choices. It is your ability to choose. That is your identity. That is your soul. That is your infinite, unconditionally loved and loving nature. 

You have forgotten this true identity, so you forget what it means to be unconditionally loved. Because you forget what it means to be unconditionally loved and to be free to choose, you behave in certain ways in order to be who you are “supposed” to be. You limit your choices to only those that are acceptable to the voices in your head. You judge yourself constantly in order to mould yourself into the being that you’ve been taught to be. 

Who taught you these things? Others, who also forgot their own true nature. Parents, teachers, siblings, elders, priests, presidents, the whole world it seems. Each was a product of artificially limited choices, of conditional love. They seeked to limit your choices from when you were born, because they were told to limit their choices by those who raised them. Sure, they had mostly good intentions, but little by little, as you were taught to limit your choices, you forgot your ability to choose and your true identity along with it.

So now you’re probably in a state of varying degrees of misery, because you have chosen to be limited, not by your own free choices, but by the choices of others. You and everyone else have come together to create a reality of limitation, where people judge themselves and each other, all to keep everyone within the acceptable range of choices. 

This is the cause of the sickness that ails the world. We limit ourselves, and attempt to limit everything else, including the natural world itself. Environmental destruction is created by deliberately limiting the choices of the natural world. Poverty is created by deliberately limiting the choices and opportunities of people. Meanwhile, all of this is leading to an ever growing number of people suffering from depression and physical diseases.  

The solution to this dis-ease is simply to be at ease. To be at ease is to be natural, which is to be true to ourselves. To be true to ourselves is to unconditionally love ourselves and everyone else, giving everyone back to themselves.

A world of unconditionally loved beings is a world that allows all the freedom to choose. It is a world of abundance, which is a reflection of our ability to choose to express ourselves in whatever way we prefer.   It is a world of health, which is the absence of dis-ease. It is a world of joy, which is the feeling of choosing that which we prefer.


Reality is a reflection. Unconditional love for ourselves creates an unconditionally loving reality. Let go of who you think you’re supposed to be and simply be who you truly are, which is infinite in nature. As you get in touch with and become who you really are, reality reflects this change by reflecting the infinite possibilities that it contains.

We don’t trust the nature of our being, which is why we don’t allow ourselves the true freedom to make choices. Because we don’t trust ourselves, we don’t trust each other. Because we don’t trust each other we attempt to limit everyone else’s freedom through various forms of judgment. Because we don’t trust each other we don’t trust nature. Because we don’t trust nature we attempt to limit its freedom by manipulating it and dominating it with our actions. Because we don’t trust nature we don’t trust god, because god created nature. Because we don’t trust god we reinforce our belief in the evil nature of our being and in god’s limitations on our behaviour. The cycle of mistrust continues.

Unconditional love for yourself empowers your choices in Life. It is this unconditional love that provides the solid foundation upon which your true identity as an infinite creator can rest. It is what allows the infinite to be infinite. It is what allows you to be at total choice in your experience. It allows you to experience the freedom that is your birthright. Without unconditional love for yourself, your choices will be based on who you think you should be, rather than basing them on who you know you choose to be. Love yourself fully and step into your creatorhood.

When facing an unpleasant situation that does not seem to have a solution, ask yourself: what does this situation allow me to look at within myself that I may not have looked at were it not for my experience of this situation? How does this situation serve me in desiring and constructing a new state of being and a new experience? In what way does this situation lead to a growth in my understanding of myself? The answers are within, waiting to be discovered. Ask yourself these questions and look within.

Existence is abundant enough to experience and express itself in all the ways that it can, which means every aspect within it is also abundant enough to experience and express itself in all the ways it can.

Even the most negative interaction with others is self-created, out of unconditional love, in order for us to get in touch with feelings that we feel we need to get in touch with. Each and every interaction is created out of service to all involved in the interaction. Each being gets out of the interaction exactly what they need to get out of it. Each interaction provides all who are involved with an opportunity to redefine themselves in relation to the others and to be who they prefer to be. The way to honour these precious interactions and the loving beings who participated in them is by incorporating what we learned from them into our beings and then being the fullest expression of who we desire to be.

Nature is you happening. The growing of the plants and trees, the foraging and hunting of the animals, the waving of the oceans, the rising and setting of the sun, and so on. All of it is integral to your current experience.

It’s amazing to me that we spend so much time planning and trying to control circumstances in order to continue to exist, and yet we are utterly and completely vulnerable to the spontaneous actions of the natural world. We cannot consciously control the behaviour of the plants or animals, and yet their behaviour directly supports our existence as human beings.

The Inescapable Lesson

You will learn, one way or another, that you are connected to all of existence.

You can act from limitation, separation and fear for only so long, before you realize that you never were limited or separated, because there was nowhere to be separate.

You will learn that your fear does not push away what you fear, because there is nowhere to push it to.

You will learn that judgment does not get rid of anything, because there is nowhere to get rid of it to.

You will learn that no matter where or how well you hide or protect yourself from the world, you are always vulnerable to Life, because vulnerability is a sign of your unbreakable connection to Life.

You will learn that no matter where you go; no matter how deeply you go into the dark, you will always be firmly within the infinite, unconditionally loving embrace of existence.

You will learn that no matter how far you fall, there will always be another chance to get up, because you cannot fall out of infinite existence.

You will learn that no matter how high you rise, there will always be more to rise to, because you cannot rise out of infinite existence.

You will learn that there is no outside. Everything is within. Everything is connected. 

Feel the freedom of that realization. Feel the safety. Feel the blessing. Feel the integration.

You are here to stay, so you may as well get comfortable and live the way you want to.

You are absolutely free to follow your joy. So if you’re not doing so already, what’s stopping you from following that joy?

Are you afraid that you’ll lose something? There is nowhere to lose anything to.

Are you afraid that you don’t have what it takes to follow your joy? That you aren’t abundant enough to follow it? You are already connected to whatever it will take.

You are infinitely abundant. because you are infinitely connected.